Acts of kindness are meaningfulPublished 7:27pm Friday, July 18, 2014
As I talked to Madeline on the telephone while my wife was out of town recently, I told her I was lonely since Nana was not at home.
You never know what will come out of the mouth of a six year old, and this time was no exception. Madeline’s response brought a smile to my face when she extended a simple invitation to me, that in her mind, was a solution to my whole dilemma: “Well, just pack your suitcase and come on over here!”
Of course, I declined her offer, but her sincerity was evident and her desire to make sure Papa was well taken care of was obvious. If every adult maintained that heartfelt level of hospitality that was expressed in Madeline’s youthful attitude, our world would be a much more pleasant one.
On one occasion as Christ instructed His disciples, He included this statement: “And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is My disciple, I tell you the truth, he will certainly not lose his reward” (Matthew 10:42, New International Version).
Giving a cup of cold water sounds like a very simple and basic act, yet when it is done from a pure heart with sincere motives it is an act of kindness that does not go unnoticed by God.
It can also serve as yet another reminder that everything that God directs us to do for the cause of Christ is important, no matter how insignificant it might seem at the moment.
He has called us to be faithful in both the small things and the great things, and to fulfill the roles that are seen by others and those that are not.
As Paul, the writer of 1 Thessalonians, was bringing his letter to a close, he included this bit of instruction: “Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else” (5:15). If we follow our sinful human inclinations when we are done wrong by others, our response is to get even or to come against those opposing us with a stronger wrong than they have brought against us. But, as revealed in 1 Thessalonians 5, that is quite contrary to what Paul describes as the Christian response.
Rather than responding to the wrong with another wrong, we are to render Christ-like kindness. Such kindness is not to be limited to just those within the church; we should strive to offer expressions of kindness to all that we come in contact with.
Writer Chuck Swindoll correctly states what is experienced when we truly forgive one who has wronged us: “The revengeful desire to get back and get even will wane, and in its now-empty space will come such an outpouring of relief and a new spirit of joy that you won’t feel like the same person.”
By so doing, we bring our behavior into line with our belief and position ourselves to offer kindnesses to others that will honor God.
Even though I did not take advantage of Madeline’s offer to come to her house to relieve my loneliness, I did receive her gift of kindness.
Why not make it your goal everyday to look for opportunities to extend expressions of kindness to others.
Even the smallest of those expressions that are given can be meaningful when they are wrapped in the love of Christ.